So things in my life have taken me and my partner Anthony on a little detour over the last several months. Back in May we had big plans to sell our house, and all of our belongings and head west out to Seattle to start a new life on the west coast. Well we sold the house, and all of our belongings, but never made it to Seattle. About a month before we were to head west, Anthony became ill, and we were unable to make it to Seattle. We closed on the house at the end of June, and have been staying with my sister and brother in-law and our niece in Glen Aubrey New York, about 15 miles outside Binghamton New York. It is very beautiful here, and having family around has been a godsend helping me cope while Anthony slowly recovers.
The month after graduation was pure hell. I was trying to work, pack and sell our stuff, and get the house ready for closing, all while trying to care for Anthony while the Doctors tried to figure out what was going on with him. They never did, not in Rochester. I was able to get things all squared away with the house, and the closing went with out a hitch. I was able to get Anthony to my sisters house in Binghamton, and found some great Doctors who are taking really great care of Anthony’s condition.
What we know currently is that he is suffering from Trigeminal Neuralgia, a very painful inflammation of the facial nerves. It’s considered one of the most painful things to experience in the world. There were several times it seemed like the end of the world for both of us, especially after the forth ER visit in two weeks. But with the help and love of our family and friends, we have made it to a place where Ant seems to be out of the woods. He had been in bed since the end of May, but in recent weeks has been able to walk around the bedroom, and come out to the dinning room table and have dinner with us. They seem like small little steps, but I will take any I can get. I will keep you all posted with our progress. In the meantime we are adjusting to our little life detour.








